Food for Thought-Holding on is not always a good Thing

Fighting for a relationship can be a bad thing. I’m not saying two people should not fight to work through issues. Two is the operative word here. If you are the only one fighting, the battle has already been lost. Would you hold a hot pan while it sears away your flesh?

2 thoughts on “Food for Thought-Holding on is not always a good Thing”

  1. Change is not always a good thing. It may force us out of tired habits and impose better ones upon us, but it can also be stressful, costly and even destructive. What’s important about change is how we anticipate it and react to it. Change can teach us to adapt and help us develop resilience, but only if we understand our own capacity for growth and learning. When change makes us better, it’s because we have learned how to turn a challenging situation to our own advantage, not merely because change happens.