I’ve felt this a few times in my life. Sometimes we see the changes in ourselves but we just have trouble accepting it. Women are usually nurturers. We try to nurture those we love. Unfortunately, we sometimes forget to nurture ourselves.
Sometimes letting go hurts less than holding on. It’s funny, we would never hold a hot pan while it burns us. We would drop it immediately. We are not as quick to drop a person that burns us emotionally.