I believe that everyone’s purpose is unique. Our journey is our own. Not that we can’t share our journey with others, but what we need to learn, to grow, is unique. Don’t look at how others handle certain situations to gather data on how you should act.
Too many people rely on others to guide them in decisions they need to be making for theirselves. Don’t be scared to mess up. Everyone does. Life is like a test. Sometimes we pass with flying colors and other times we fail. Failing is still a positive if we take it as a lesson.