We do teach others how to treat us. We overlook, make excuses, don’t want to fight, tolerate and ignore when we should be standing up and speaking our minds or even just walking away.
Yes, we do teach people how to treat us. However, there are some people out there that will take advantage of a kind and loving heart. And there are some that are just self absorbed and don’t think about how their actions affects others.
It takes two. Takers take. Givers give. Players play. Sometimes we end up more upset with ourselves than anyone. Hindsight is 20/20. We live and learn. Take the lesson.
Wisdom isn’t innate, it’s earned from experience.